Cycleofexpressionandreception
Sometimesweexhibitourapparentlyshownmienofourownpersonalityandcharacteristicalittlebittooblatantly
tothepointwhereothersfeelorassumeourselves"noisome"and"annoying"
Butwedon''twantthat
Soweactovertlyinthewaythat''sincloseproximitytotheaverage,normalandordinary,evenmediocrestateofattitudeinordertocompensate
Whichmakesuslookevenmoredetestableandabhorrentsincewedoitbadlyand,maybethemainreason,unabashedly
That''sthecycle(thenegativeone)ofencountering,interactingwithotherswhodislikeyouatthefirstsight